I face the very same obstacle. I've been working online for 20 years, and have typed approximately 936 million billion words in that time, but I can't do a blog to save my life. I can code a blog publishing system (like Wordpress) and set it up to automatically create 2,983 blogs on a server, but I can't actually type a blog. Duh!! Without direct interaction, I simply can't write, period. With direct interaction, I can type at 700 wpm for 3 days straight without taking a breath.Greta wrote: I want to write but it seems like I can only write in online conversation!
A possible solution here might be have a blog or book partner. For example, Greta and myself might pick a topic and then go back and forth in a series of articles, each fueling the other's ego, energy, ideas etc. Basically, a forum reduced to a smaller more focused format.
Getting back on topic...
Even some perfectly healthy people simply aren't well suited to have kids. I know, because I'm one of those people. Kids need stability, and I'm addicted to creativity and change. I am amazed that I somehow knew this about myself in my twenties, a time when it seemed I literally did not know anything else at all, especially about myself. It seems it was one of those "gift" kind of things, a talent that could not be explained by logic.The question of the OP is ultimately a case of "it depends". If one is depressed, a junkie, poverty-stricken, living in danger, lazy, neglectful, irresponsible, cruel or mentally sick, then having kids would seem problematic. Otherwise it would seem to entirely be a matter of preference since the kids will at least have a reasonable chance at having a good life.