I said I agreed – somewhat – with what you wrote. And yes you can get your heart broke. The somewhat – qualifier - for me is beyond what you wrote. Again - Good sex can lead to an enlightened being and bring about real purpose and meaning to life – our highest purpose and meaning. We have a desire as beings to be fulfilled with love and meaning. This desire opens the door to spirituality and a purposeful life. Thinking beyond oneself to the “other” is a portal to bond with another – but – most importantly to bond with oneself. Good sex and a purposeful life require a leap of faith and there are no guarantees.Spectrum wrote:
The default purpose of sex [neural algorithm] is to produce the next generation and preserve the species. To ensure this the sex neural algorithm is linked to the pleasure and pain neural circuit [and other circuits]. Those who are in alignment with the ultimate purpose and to have sex are rewarded with pleasure [highest degree due to its criticalness].
Those who do not understand the whole scheme and sex in perspective and are addicted to the pleasure of sex, SOME will resort to power to sustain their addiction for that pleasure.
But note pleasure [happiness] can be a liability.
Happiness Can Break Your Heart
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Thus a balance and optimality is required
DNA wise, Sex is a very powerful drive especially during one's active reproductive age and sex is linked to many positive benefits for a person and sex is also a potential liability to the well being of the individual.
Thus what is critical is one must understand sex in its whole perspective to the individual and collective. From this one must modulate and optimize one's sexual drives.
A woman teaches love as a mother and/or lover. Love is the basis of civilization. It is what holds us together and defines who we are. Without love – life has little meaning of substance.