We need to play absolutely fair by banning all the primary sources of hate without favouring any religion or ideology over any other. If our own religion contains hate (I personally ditched the one I grew up in, but I'm not asking anyone else to go that far), we need to condemn and eliminate that hate and thereby stop propagating it. All people who are locked into communities with a belief system based on texts that contain hate are in a difficult position where they will likely be rejected by the rest of their community if they are the only ones who speak out against that hate, so they are in serious need of help - they need a universal push to eliminate the hate systematically with anyone who holds back from doing so being named and shamed so that all the social pressure falls on them instead. We can break this cycle of hate, but it isn't going to possible so long as people focus on one group that needs to do this work while failing to address all the many other harbourers of hate. Every time someone dies because someone else acts on holy hate or the hate in the manifesto of an ideology of any kind, all those who identify themselves with that ideology or religion need to realise that they are accessories to that murder because they have failed to condemn and eradicate that primary hate.
The people who single out Islam do so because they see Islam as the worst offender, but they end up looking like haters themselves because of this bias of failing to name the other offenders. This then drives the ignorant mainstream to defend Islam's hate (by convincing themselves that it doesn't exist) and to condemn the person who condemned Islam instead, so the situation gets more dangerous over time instead of safer as people drive society in directions that historically have repeatedly led to genocide. There are also some people who are actively trying to drive things in that direction precisely to trigger genocide - the worst of the right-wingers are not the ones with shaved heads who spit at Muslims, but the ones who pose as pacifists and encourage integration in the full knowledge that they are mixing a lot of hydrogen and oxygen gas together and that when the quantities are right, it will only take one spark to set the whole thing off. They hope that this will lead to worldwide elimination of all the people they hate. There are four big powers, two of which will happily join in with the eradication of Muslims. The other two are democratic, and one of these regularly falls into the hands of the right. The other is the EU, and as it becomes more tightly tied together as a single power, it too will become susceptible to sudden lurches to the right where everyone has to go along for the ride. A few sparks here and there, and lo and behold: there will be worldwide genocide. How can we stop this? Just go on mixing everyone together and hope they'll choose love over hate? No - they've already failed to reject hate (all sides). They're all dragging hate along for the ride while pretending they don't do hate, and it's going to end badly, unless something systematic is done to separate them all from that hate which they insist on defending and propagating. This is a task for all of us - do clean up our own side and stop focusing the blame solely on the other.