Post Number:#97
January 5th, 2013, 1:04 pm
Hi, I'm new here and this "how to post most effectively" thread is interesting. Funny how some of the posting problems have popped up in this thread about how to avoid the posting problems!
There is often a subtext to a post. No matter the subject, the subtext is "I'm smart, you're stupid." Sometimes the subtext is very subtle, but it still irritates. If we can scan our posts before posting and eliminate this subtext it will help a lot.
To the person who said that we should prepare and learn the terms and concepts, I would say ok, to a point. There are many of us who haven't read the books, don't know the philosophical definitions of the words, and aren't likely to learn them before posting here. Please bear with us and help us learn the lingo.
"What do you mean by that?" is a very useful question. It means that I'm reading closely and want to understand more. I think it's a great question and I don't mean it in any threatening way.
A discussion like this is a team sport and we're all on the same team. If we help each other to understand and grow, the discussions may get better. We can hope.