Commitment PHOBIAS
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Commitment PHOBIAS
They have a phobia for commitment, I have read lots of romance novels,
and the men are ideal figures, except contemporary romance. The fear
of commitment is the root of all or most failing relationships.
Once the guy walks up to a beauty queen, he is thrilled, perhaps swept off
his feet by her beauty and fragrance, he does all within his capacity to keep
her for himself. He applies the love, ever caring, always there, seductive,
romantic and monetary approach.
He takes her out for the first date, then the second and then the third.
Then they both take a step further, they become intimate, make love,
and experience all forms of eroticism and ecstasy. Then the lady puts up
the big question, "when do we tie the knot?" The guy gets scared in a bizarre
manner, he begins drifting, avoiding her calls, not inviting her for parties anymore,
his meeting schedule becomes busier, he needs to spend more time with his family,
he feels pressured and he beats around the bush until the truth surfaces,
"I am so sorry, but I just realized you are not the right woman for me, I love you though, but
it just can't work." Relationships are like an emotional bank, the woman invests while the man wredraws.
What are your opinions?
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