Grecorivera5150 wrote:Is it as potentially unethical for a non-theist to try and challenge a person of faith to question themselves as it is annoying for a non-theist to be preached to. Isn't trying to disprove someone's religion that they hold dear just because it does not fall in line with your world view as bad as someone trying to force their religion on you? It smells like hypocrisy to me!
Evangelizing (in a sense that is not necessarily religious -- can I use the word that way?) is not something bad per se. It really depends what you're trying to convince people of. The UN or organizations like Amnestry International are evangelizing about human rights, for instance. They're trying to shove their views about human rights down the throats of Assad or Ghaddafi, or of other governments that don't respect human rights. Is this bad? Of course not, it's great!
The problem with religious people who try to convince others of their religion being true isn't that they're badgering people about this topic. (Imagine you truly believed that non believers go to hell, wouldn't you be a selfish a-hole if you didn't try to prevent people from eternal suffering?) It's that they're wrong and unwilling to admit it when faced with good arguments. If you're going to badger people about your views like a missionary, first make sure you're right about it, or else the odds are high that you're just annoying others for no good reason.
Having said that, I don't think trying to argue strong believers out of their faith is an effective cause for doing good. I don't think it's a bad thing, I'm just saying one could spend one's time more wisely. I'm pretty sure atheists often argue with religious people because it's fun. I wouldn't quite call this wrong or hypocritical, but I think one should make sure to treat people one disagrees with respectively, especially when one is the one starting the discussion.
Regarding the question of whether religion has done more good or more harm, I'd like to add that most people don't consider some very serious negative consequences that are indirect: E.g. resistance to stem cell research or PGD; distrust of science in general; resistance to combatting global warming; resistance to transhumanism; all the wasted productiveness of well-intentioned motivated people doing missionary work or going into monasteries instead of focusing on problems like world poverty. I'm not saying all religions imply these or that all religious people have these attributes. But I think (and have actually seen studies about some of these) there is a strong correlation between religiosity and the above, and I also think that this isn't just due to confounding variables.
The main problem is that religion is accompagnied by memes that systematically lead to bad thinking. See:
http://lesswrong.com/lw/uy/dark_side_epistemology/Combatting that is surely a very important issue, but I think starting arguments with religious people is not a good way of doing that.
Edit: This isn't something limited to religion of course, it's a problem with all kinds of esoteric beliefs or movements.
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