I think that Ciceronianus is right;
Which brings us back to the OP's demand for a certain refutation of solipsism, which seems to require, as far as the OP is concerned, that the existence of an "external world" be established with what he believes to be absolute certainty. Simply put, there can be no absolute certainty, and to demand is futile and representative of the kind of philosophy Dewey criticizes.
Solipsism is one of several theories of existence and we make our choice among them probably based upon moral, or cognitive grounds for those choices. To choose to not believe that solipsism is correct is to choose naturalism, or materialism/physicalism, or the double aspect monism.
E.g. the only belief that saved that persistent sceptic George Berkeley from solipsism was his faith in God.
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Jackwhitlocke_005 wrote:ciceronianus- I am not asking for absolute certainty! I'm simply asking for anything that indicates that the belief in other beings and the outside world is justified.
It is morally jusifiable by reference to The Golden Rule, or human rights, or animal rights, or love for the natural environment.
It is psychologically justifiable by reference to our peace of mind.Each human more or less is a social animal.
It is cognitively jusitfied by reference to the facts of scientific progression from ignorance to empirical truths.By contrast the solipsist has no need to change the status quo because he is himself the essence of the status quo.