To expand a little more on this. For the case of the old ladies that the guy wants money from what he should do is for example learn how to paint houses. Then sell house painting for a discount to old ladies. While he is doing that he should also learn about cats because most old ladies like cats. While he is painting a house for money he can play with the cat. The old lady will be impressed and recommend him to all of her old lady friends. Now the man has many old ladies that want to give him money. simple, but requires improvement and self-control.AmericanKestrel wrote: ↑June 15th, 2021, 9:12 pmIf rejection is a cause, are there any crimes or hateful acts that cannot be argued result of rejection? Breaking into a car and stealing it, because the door lock rejected? Muugging an old lady and stealing her money, because she rejected his request for money? Can we list the number crimes caused by rejection?mystery wrote: ↑June 15th, 2021, 8:11 pmRejection is a thing.AmericanKestrel wrote: ↑June 15th, 2021, 5:58 pmWhat exactly do you mean if remove the rejection? Rejection is not a thing, it is denying access to the body. The only way removal of rejection can happen is if the man forces himself, which is rape. Yes, we agree women should not be raped.
A woman should for sure reject what she does not want. I think we are in agreement on this, if not pls tell.
The man can learn to deal with the rejection in a more useful way, also the man can learn how to behave so rejection does not occur or occur as often.
The woman does not need imo to change for this issue. This is a man's issue to solve about themselves. We completely agree that going to hate in response to rejection is bad. We disagree on how the man should deal with it in his mind. What I assume a woman would want is for it to stop, period. I would expect a woman might consider any path that she does not need to contribute to that would lead to a solution as a useful thing. Some men on the other hand will not like it because it places blame on men, directly on men and does not allow for an excuse such as mental illness or other excuses that are based on lack of motivation.
Breaking into a house and robing.
Beating up your employees because the rejected low wages?
Beating up the customer because …
This formula can be applied to many situations.
In my solution, he is still getting money from the old ladies and everyone is happy about it.