evolution wrote: ↑December 31st, 2020, 2:57 am
LOL "actual" 'child abuse'.
See, here is A PRIME EXAMPLE of what adult human beings PRESUME 'abuse' means and what they USE to 'try to' "EXCUSE" their abusive behaviors on children.
Are you even remotely AWARE that 'abuse' comes in ALL different sorts of degrees or levels?
Abuse happens on a continuum between LOVED and WANTED to HATED and DETESTED.
'Abuse' is
abuse. There is NO 'actual child abuse' and some other form of child abuse. If an adult is abusing a child, then there is NO escaping from that. Especially with CLAIMS or REMARKS like; But what I did was not 'actual' child abuse.
And, nothing STOPS and PREVENTS adult human beings MORE from CHANGING their ways and WRONG BEHAVIORS than to say, think, or believe "What I do is NOT 'actual' abuse".
The ONLY thing that STOPS and PREVENTS adult human beings from CHANGING, for the better, MORE than 'trying to' "justify", "rationalize", "minimize", or just "excuse" their WRONG and ABUSIVE behaviors other than to just DENY that they do WRONG and ABUSE CHILDREN, completely.
What can be CLEARLY SEEN among adult human beings is that they are in COMPLETE DENIAL and do not even know that they are lying.
WHY ONLY the "savage" animal do you abuse? What about ALL of the other animals you abuse? Or, WHY are you only "truly savage" when abusing animals but not when you are abusing the other things here?
And, by the way, if you say you are abusing ALL of these things as well, then WHY do you do that?
Also, HOW and WHY just because you abuse children, then that somehow means that you abuse these other things? Where is the EXACT "correlation" here?
How EXACTLY are ALL of these groups, so called, "struggling"?
And, are you absolutely SURE that ALL of these groups are not 'feeling' as though society is looking after them?
If the answer here is "Yes", then will you provide some examples for each and every one of these groups?
BECAUSE each and EVERY one of you adult, abusing, human being have been, and were being, abused when you were just children, "yourselves".
The reason WHY ALL of 'you', adult human beings, ARE abusing children, in ALL the different ways that do, is VERY UNDERSTANDABLE, but NEVER ACCEPTABLE, NOR EVER EXCUSABLE.
Find, discover and learn that reason, and then you can START to change, for the BETTER, not just for children but, literally, for your OWN selves, as well.
But you can NOT start to change if you think or believe that you are NOT doing ANY wrong to begin with.
So, you HAVE TO FIRST admit the 'problem', the WRONG DOING, BEFORE you could change, and fix and solve the 'problem', and thus RESOLVE this WHOLE ISSUE here, COMPLETELY.