It is not hopeless, but it is difficult.Atla wrote: ↑July 24th, 2021, 7:49 am Women want manly but secretely sensitive men, who are really devoted to them, who bring down the stars for them, who totally 'love' them, but don't actually LOVE them. What a paradox, a kick in the gut in the end, isn't it.
So is it a wonder that so many men have devolved to be emotionally deficient, if not outright sociopathic/psychopathic? And then women blame the problems of the world caused by the sociopathic men, on the good men, kicking them in the gut once more. And women are even oblivious to all this. It's all really hopeless.
The biology of the woman wants power and wants seed placed into her that has potential for power. Her body wants this, even if her mind knows better. Her body will search and want that, it is the strongest drive in the species and why humans have completely won in the evolution game.
The woman's body will not want the man unless it detects power. Power can be good or bad and comes in very odd forms, sometimes just not caring can be power vs those that do care.
The mind works differently but it is trapped in the body, the body has the final word.
This situation can be managed, but it is what it is.
It is not evil and nothing to hate.
Developing some sort of power is not manipulation it is hard work.
What makes it so difficult is that most men are greedy. If men would not be greedy then women would be forced to select nongreedy men. As long as women prefer greedy men, men will be greedy. It is also zero-sum, those winning have no incentive to make changes if greedy.