https://www.theguardian.com/books/2023/ ... to-live-by
As expected, I (and many others on this forum) violate many of the rules.
Rule 1: Be sincere (avoid wrangling for wranglings sake). Huh! What if we like wrangling? Sincerity is overrated. An insincere but entertaining or controversial post is preferrable to a sincere but dull one.
Rule 2: Be charitable. I agree, here (though I violate this rule regularly). The idea is to see the best points of one's interlocutor's posts, instead of the worst ones.
Rule 3: Be humble. I try. But when you're me, it's so difficult.
Rule 4: Keep it simple, but not simplistic. OK. Fair enough.
Rule 5: Watch your language. I agree. But this can be overdone. Endless defining of terms gets dull.
Rule 6: Be eclectic. Bingo. Philosophy need not be monlithic. It can encompass, science, literature, poetry, politics, etc.
Rule 7: . Think for yourself, not by yourself
“No culture has a monopoly on wisdom, no culture embodies all the great values, and therefore each culture has a great deal to learn from others, through dialogue." Nobody has it all figured out. Wisdom is cultural, and must be learned.
Rule 8: Seek clarity, not certainty. Good advice, since certainty is always, well, uncertain.
Rule 9: Pay attention.
Rule 10: Follow the mean. The notion here is that every virtue can be overdone and become a vice. Everything in moderation (per Aristotle). This advice can be violated philosophically when reason, objectivity, and logic become our rulers instead of our tools. As the article states:Iris Murdoch was a philosopher and a novelist. These two vocations were intimately linked. As her colleague Mary Midgley put it: “On Murdoch’s view of ethics, we learn what is the right thing to do by attending to what is the case and increasing our understanding of reality.” For example, empathy teaches us more about what is needed to treat a person well than moral theory.
Of course by calling these bits of advice "rules" the article violates its own rules #3, 4, 5, and 7. This may or may not invalidate the rest of the advice.That is why every intellectual virtue needs to come with a warning not to slavishly apply it: follow the argument wherever it leads but don’t follow it to absurdity; question everything but not all the time; define your terms as clearly as you can but don’t think all terms can be defined with scientific precision. Even virtuous habits of thought can become vices if they are misapplied. The virtues of thinking require balance and judgment – and, thankfully, these are skills any one of us can learn.
IN any event, what do people here think? Should we heed this advice? I think "follow the mean" can be overdone. I want to live passionately, and boldly, however risky that may be. I'll have plenty of time to follow the mean in the grave. As Andrew Marvell wrote, "the grave's a fine and private place / But none, I think, do there embrace..."