I'm actually a couple years younger. However, Mark Twain allegedly said that if the world was about to end, he would want to be in Cincinnati, as everything happens twenty years later there.Terrapin Station wrote: ↑October 4th, 2020, 7:35 am Oops--I see you already said you grew up in a strongly Catholic culture. Still wondering if you're older than I am, though.
Regarding religion, I was brought up rather unusually in that I had more or less no notion of any religious ideas until I was around 15 or 16. And then when I finally learned something about religions, I was like--"Wait, you believe what??" I thought it was some sort of practical joke at first.
The religious scene is one more good example of what I was getting at above. In my head, I didn't buy what was being sold, but especially not the things that went against the very words of Jesus that were supposed to be the backbone of the whole thing. For example, my Mom was shunned from the church because she was divorced, though I was still expected to go to CCD classes, as I might possibly have been saved. But, Jesus hung out with thieves and hookers and said they could all be saved, so there was a serious inconsistency that was evident to me at a very young age. Yet, I was not actively speaking out against the church, as I thought I would be an outcast if I did. Again, the outside world did not shape my essence, but only repressed it, or encouraged me to repress it. My deeply held ideas of right and wrong were still my own.