Sculptor1 wrote: ↑May 11th, 2023, 5:12 pm
I am surprised to hear, what I would call out-of-date views, in a staff room. I am already 63, and never once heard a person argue that women ought to be at home in any work situation.
What year was such a view expressed? What country? What state.
In the UK anyone with the gall to express such a view would have been laughed at at any time after say 1980. Surely not in a staffroom full of middle class people!!
JackDaydream wrote: ↑May 11th, 2023, 6:10 pm
I was surprised by the argument in the staff room. But I have come across many people who do have some outdated ideas even among middle class people, even in the twentieth first century. You might be surprised at all the possibilities and I would not have known if a teacher hadn't mentioned it to me. I find that often the unacceptable views occur behind the scenes. For example, there may be lip service to policies but if you dig deeper there is a lot going on.
It's easy to forget the importance of upbringing in these circumstances. And I don't refer to the overt teaching we get from our parents or teachers. I mean the way we absorb the values of the society in which we are raised. We do it unconsciously,
long before we are mature enough to consider the values we are unknowingly adopting. We absorb it
uncritically, along with everything else we are learning about the world we have so recently been born into.
So I was raised a profound racist, although neither my Mum nor my teachers ever said anything
overtly racist to me. We all — yes,
everybody, adults and children too! — laughed at people with black skin, we called them names, and we considered them less than we were, in every way. The TV programmes of the time, in the UK, reflect these attitudes clearly and strongly.
I dare say anyone else raised in the UK, around that time, was similarly 'programmed'. I have worked to suppress these vile ideas all my life, but they can never be properly expunged. It's because they were learned prior to the development of our critical faculties, so they are accepted without question, as being right and proper. I think this is why such things as racism can take many generations to get rid of, if they can be got rid of at all. Those values that are absorbed so early in life...
Oh, and back to the main topic: sexism is absorbed in exactly the same way I have described, and it is equally impossible to completely erase. I only described my childhood experience of learning to be a racist because it is more visible to me, in my mind. Sexism is just as good an example as racism. All the -isms share a lot in common, I think. None of it very wholesome...