How Unassertiveness Leads to Aggression and the Illusion of 'Shoulds' and 'Oughts'

[Vincent Nyabwari]

Very true if you see something is suitable for you always ask maybe it was meant and waited for you to ask

[Chinazo Anozie]

It's true. No can be expected to read your thoughts and figure out what you want. This leads to unrealistic expectations and even resentment when this happens. (Effective) communication is key.

[Abbra Marsh]

This passage resonates with me as it stresses the need for clear and assertive communication, discouraging a passive approach to expressing one's needs. I appreciate the insight into the potential toxicity of enabling unassertive behavior and the reminder to act out of genuine, unconditional love without expecting gratitude. The notion that our choices determine what we truly want challenges the conventional concepts of blame, highlighting the importance of self-responsibility. Overall, it encourages a mindset of proactive decision-making and aligning actions with genuine desires.