Imagine two people who are both going through divorce:beckybelvin wrote: ↑February 4th, 2023, 8:49 am I can see the logic in this statement; however, there could be some benefit to taking advice from unhappy people. Why are they not happy? Are you facing the same kind of situation as what is making them unhappy? If so, I believe that advice from anyone who has already faced that situation who help.
Person A follows the advice of someone who also went divorce but is unhappy.
Person B follows the advice of someone who also went through divorce but is happy.
Genuine question: Who do you think is more likely to be happy after following the advice given? Person A or Person B?
If I want to learn how to drive a car without crashing, and I can only take advice from one person, I will take driving advice from someone who has consistently driven without crashing for a long time rather than someone who crashes a lot.