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If I wake up in your body and retain my own memory, I'll definitely freak out when I see myself in the mirror.
But if I wake up in your body with your memory instead of mind, it'll be like just another day, no changes, no difference.
So, in essence, we are one human nature with unique physical differences.
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"If it ain't broke, don't fix it." NF from Motto
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I say, No, there would no difference in my opinion.
Our life is based on our memories. Each individual is distinguished by their memories. If there are no memories then there's no life as such. If someone lost their memories then still they create new memories by living the lost memory life.
If two person's memories are getting combined then it would've been different to notice but not on shifting it.
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I respectfully disagree.Fredrick Felix Mnjala Maneno wrote: ↑June 23rd, 2023, 9:47 am If my memories were replaced by yours then there'd be nothing to remember and hence would not notice any difference. There would be nothing to notice as I would essentially be you in all aspects.
Our belief-systems, which make up our self-image, reactions, understandings, opinions, and interpretations, are not intact at birth. Those are all formed by what we're taught by meaningful and authoritative people in our lives. Usually parents, other family members, teachers, clergy, religious text, peers, and doctors...in our formative years. And when we're older, our bosses, politicians, news programs, celebrities, etc. are all constantly bombarding us with what we "should" think and feel and believe.
The way we're taught is by what we're told, in one way or another. More often than not (quite a bit more often, actually) we aren't even aware that the things we're told, what we hear, and things we read are even influential, much less have the effect they have on us developmentally as a youth, and on our beliefs and biases when we're older. And it's even more rare that we remember any of what affected us to that degree at all.
Therefore, memories are not a defining part of our makeup. They're just a reference to some of the things we've experienced. And not everything we experience will influence, or alter, our belief-systems. Granted, some will, but most won't.
So it wouldn't matter if we woke up with different memories, or different bodies, or in a different bed. Our belief-systems, which include how we see ourselves, (our self-image) wouldn't have changed. Maybe gaining some of the "new" memories might make us reconsider some of our belief-systems, but we'd still be ourselves. We wouldn't "disappear" and take over someone else's existence!
Put it this way: if you are a "glass is half empty", negative, angry, anti-social, mean-spirited, vengeful kinda guy, waking up in a different bed, with a different body, and different memories will NOT magically change you into a happy, easy-going, free-spirited, don't-worry-be-happy, "glass is half full" kinda guy. Even IF the guy whose bed you woke up in WAS. Or is. Well, you know what i mean...

As far as noticing a difference, maybe we wouldn't at first.

Once again, I'm not saying we'd even be aware of there being any discrepancies. But things would be noticed on some level. Depending on how in-tune the person was with himself to begin with, of course.
And because we're all connected, acceptance of, [and] the situation in general, would probably result in an extremely smooth transition, if not an instinctive and unconscious one.
Believe me, though, memories or no memories, I'd feel it deep in my gut something was really, REALLY different if I woke up and started living Scott's life instead of my own. You can trust me BIG TIME on that.

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However, even without my body and my memories. If the conscious is like a diver of a car but can remember anything about the car they used to drive then yes, there would be a noticeable difference.
This question brings up good ideas about consciousness and the self.
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I like the way you put it. It is proven that water and earth have memory of their own, and as humans are made of these essentially, all the memory won't be lost. In this state we will be in between, unable to figure out what exactly is missing. Sad place to be, I guess.Surabhi Rani wrote: ↑May 24th, 2023, 1:34 am The uniqueness and individuality of my soul would never dissolve or be destroyed even if I went to sleep in my body in my bed with my memories, and awoke in your body in your bed with your memories instead of mine. I think in that case, I would still identify myself, although I might not be practically aware of it. So, there would certainly be a difference to notice.
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Interesting line of thought. Would you be uncomfortable though, in this "new clothing." I find that thought disturbing.Bertha Jackson wrote: ↑December 20th, 2022, 2:20 pm I confidently state that I would still be me because my soul would not change. My outward appearance is like clothing you can change but the soul remains constant.
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