We see what we want to see, meaning what we choose to see.

[Caroline Atieno Ogango]

I agree that our perception of reality is intricately woven with our individual biases, experiences, and desires. What we choose to focus on, consciously or subconsciously, greatly influences how we interpret the world around us.

[Tomy Chandrafrost]

I agree. Perhaps this aligns with the law of attraction, where the universe will connect us with what we perceive, think, and seek. Interesting perspective.

[BRIGID Wandera]

I'm not religious, but my first response to this post was, "PREACH!" I worry about this, sometimes. What am I missing because I'm not seeing it? How can I change my worldview so I see things differently? Am I missing a great thing because I'm focused on something else? It's a daily, perhaps lifelong, wrestling match with my brain.

[rudi dani]

I hear you, and positivity is a powerful tool. But let's not downplay the impact of real-world challenges. Sometimes life throws you curveballs - illness, loss, injustice. It's not always a choice to see those things as beautiful. Sure, gratitude can help us cope, but it shouldn't replace acknowledging the difficulties we face.

[Barongo Mosera]

I'm not religious, but my first response to this post was, "PREACH!" I worry about this, sometimes. What am I missing because I'm not seeing it? How can I change my worldview so I see things differently? Am I missing a great thing because I'm focused on something else? It's a daily, perhaps lifelong, wrestling match with my brain.

[Dickson Bricks]

Ghats very true. Your mind is a map of how your life wants to to. You only go to where you can see.

[Wilfred Patrick]

I believe that searching for what we want to perceive is a natural human instinct. When we're depressed, we tend to focus on the bad things in life. We anticipate being given the chance if we desire one.

[Diana Akinyi Aginga 1]

I agree with this! Our attention is limited, so we select (often subconsciously) where to focus it based on what we think is important. This selection is influenced by our priorities, fears, and desires, shaping our perception of what's happening around us.

[Diana Akinyi Aginga 1]

Also, the culture and society we grow up in can pre-determine the lenses through which we see the world. Norms, values, and expected behaviors can guide our perceptions and interpretations unconsciously.

[Sonia Lurk]

If only this truth could be discovered, it would offer much-needed comfort to countless people who are currently in pain. You are free to believe differently because you can always return to this reality. Your ego and your life experience up to this point may have led you to feel that you HAVE to think this way in a given circumstance. Nevertheless, that is untrue. You just have the choice to think as I have chosen to think. You can do anything you want with your mind since it is a free area.

[Ray Thompson]

This is very correct. Many of us choose to see what we want to see in order to justify the reasons for our behaviors and actions.

[Florence Amimo Osiema]

That's a thoughtful observation! Our perceptions may be influenced by our biases, experiences, and desires and our view of the world isn't just a reflection of reality, but also a construction shaped by our personal filters. I'm curious what led to this view/perspective.

[Florence Amimo Osiema]

I always tend to think our brains are wired to take shortcuts in processing information, leading to cognitive biases. These biases can make us prone to seeing things in a way that confirms our pre-existing beliefs or desires—a phenomenon known as confirmation bias. For example, if someone believes that rainy days are more common than they actually are, they might be more likely to remember the rainy days over the sunny ones.

[Florence Amimo Osiema]

And there's also selective attention when our focus is directed at certain important elements of our environment while other details fade into the background. This may be beneficial by helping us concentrate on key tasks at times but can also lead us to overlook important details, which is exactly what your point states.

[Obiageli Udeh]

The phrase "we see what we want to see" reflects the concept that our perceptions are often influenced by our beliefs, biases, and desires. Our minds have a tendency to filter and interpret information in a way that aligns with our preconceived notions or desires, shaping our understanding of reality. This phenomenon, known as confirmation bias, can lead us to selectively notice or interpret evidence that confirms our existing beliefs while disregarding conflicting information. Similarly, our emotional state, motivations, and personal experiences can color how we perceive the world around us, influencing the choices we make and the conclusions we draw. By recognizing the role of perception in shaping our reality, we can strive to approach situations with curiosity, open-mindedness, and critical thinking, allowing us to see beyond our biases and gain a more nuanced understanding of the world.