What aspect of your life has changed most by applying the teachings of this book?
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What aspect of your life has changed most by applying the teachings of this book?
I often think back to mistakes I've made with regret, as well, so I also love the quote, "When the ego weeps for what it has lost, the spirit rejoices for what it has found." This has made me realize that I'm not defined by my failures or shortcomings and shouldn't seek to define myself by worldly successes either.
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Similarly, the quote, "When the ego weeps for what it has lost, the spirit rejoices for what it has found," has been a balm to my soul. It encourages a perspective shift from dwelling on past mistakes and regrets to embracing the growth and wisdom that can emerge from our most challenging experiences. This shift has allowed me to cultivate a sense of inner peace and gratitude for the journey of life, with all its ebbs and flows.
The book has fundamentally altered my outlook on life by fostering an appreciation for the richness of the present moment and the inherent wisdom within our perceived failures. It has inspired a renewed commitment to nurturing my inner spirit and focusing on the boundless potential of the here and now, rather than becoming ensnared in the mirage of the future or the shadow of the past.
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Jenni Schmitt wrote: ↑May 23rd, 2023, 12:52 am What stuck with me most was the view on "shoulds" and "oughts".. Shoulds and oughts do not bring me joy. These are words of imprisonment. The same with the past tenses. What was supposed to happen is simply what happened. Obsessing on the past is a waste of time and energy, and a failed strategy for improvement.
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I used to be a perfectionist, always being hard and critical on myself. I never accepted myself fully. However after reading this book and getting inspiration from the fact that we should practice self love and accept ourselves with all flaws. These words really touched my heart and I feel a perfect stroke of serendipity to have got the cure of my main problem. Now my outlook of life is totally changed and I readily and happily accept myself with great love and care. Thank you to Eckhart Aurelius Hughes!
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