Wealth is NOT a zero-sum game.
Wealth can be created.
Be creative.
Let go of the scarcity mindset. You don't need to be a greedy desperate taker or 'value extractor'. That kind of scarcity mindset leads to misery and poverty.'
Have an abundance mindset. Bring more to the table than you take. Create wealth. Create value.
Understand that what you bring to the table is not a loss for you because you can create wealth and value out of thin air. Understand that you don't need to lose for others win, and likewise they don't need to lose for you to win.
Then, people will be eager to enter into mutually beneficial transactions and relationships with you. Then, money and opportunity will chase you.
Free people typically only enter into mutually beneficial relationships which therefore create wealth and value. They won't do business with you and they won't enter into transactions or relationships with you if it's at their expense and your benefit.
When you have a scarcity mindset, money and opportunity runs away from you. They won't want anything to do with you.
In contrast, when you have an abundance mindset, money and opportunity chases you. Then, free people are eager to buy from you. They are lining up at your door to do business with you or get in a relationship with you or interact and transact with you in some way. You'll be putting your phone on Do Not Disturb because so much wealth and opportunity will be chasing you.
A greedy envious desperate clingy jealous scarcity mindset leads to more scarcity. See yourself as poor and unlucky, and be envious of others and desperate for more, and thereby make yourself even poorer and more so-called 'unlucky'.
In contrast, a happy grateful generous loving abundance mindset leads to more abundance. See yourself as already rich, wealthy, and lucky now and become even more rich, wealthy, and lucky.
Gratitude leads to even more abundance.
Ungrateful desperation, fearful cowardice, and angry or hateful resentment (a.k.a. a scarcity mindset) leads to even more scarcity, meaning it makes you even poorer and even more lacking of that which you so desperately want. The miserable ungrateful sense of not-enough-ness that can hang over a person like a dark cloud and follow them wherever they go chases away the things they claim to want. They claim they are miserable and resentful and unhappy because they don't have X (which is untrue), and thereby chase X away. They repel X with their miserable greedy possessive clingy ungrateful outlook.
Be happily creative. Be happily grateful. Create value and create wealth. Act like the pie is infinite and keeps getting bigger, because by being a value-creator it is infinite and getting bigger. For a value-creator with an abundance mindset, there's more than enough proverbial pie to go around.
Either way you look at the proverbial, it's effectively a self-fulfilling belief. If you believe you cannot create wealth, meaning make the proverbial pie bigger, and thus just spend all your time desperately trying to greedily grab as much as you can of the limited finite pie before others can take it, then that belief effectively becomes true for you. You won't be creating much proverbial pie then, and likewise you have much pie, and anyone with pie will run from you and do their best to hide it from you.
In contrast, gratefully think you are rich and lucky with gratitude and invincible inner peace and thereby become even richer and luckier. See yourself as swimming in an incredible overflowing pool of abundance and thereby attract even more abundance.
"I'd rather live in La La Land than Pity Party Palace."
- Dr. Randy Ross, from the book Fireproof Happiness
For more on this topic, I encourage you to watch this short video by Dr. Randy Ross, author of "Fireproof Happiness: Extinguishing Anxiety & Igniting Hope".
I listened to the audiobook version of his book and loved it. I highly recommend it. Here is the link to get it on Audible:
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"The mind is a wonderful servant but a terrible master."
I believe spiritual freedom (a.k.a. self-discipline) manifests as bravery, confidence, grace, honesty, love, and inner peace.
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